27 Million modern day slaves . . . your aware . . . now what??

A little Weekend reading for you...

My thoughts on the global trafficking crisis, written from my 'mission field' (phnom penh, Cambodia). 

AWARENESS...

I'm happy to see that a song called '27 Million' is climbing the UK charts this week. Because the more people who are aware of the global trafficking crisis-human's being bought and sold-the more people there are who may act upon their awareness and do something about the problem. 

I keep seeing people write on Facebook "download 27 Million, stop trafficking". The money you give buying that awareness song will be a tiny drop in the ocean compared to the need that surrounds us all over the world. (Im not knocking the song-the people singing/promoting it are all friends of my family and are doing a great job, buy it, tell others about it-the higher it gets in the charts the more people will notice it and hear about trafficking). But i am concerned that it will be another well done awareness campaign that will have little effect in terms of changing the world. 

Working in a slum area of Cambodia everyday, with men and women who have been victims of trafficking, I find it a little strange watching UK videos of teenagers jumping around excitedly to a pop song about trafficking: why are they not broken and in tears having heard about this atrocity? Why aren't they on their knees, crying out to God for transformation of the brokenness of this world, and each life effected by it? 

If you actually want to stop trafficking it's going to take a lot of us, a lot of work, a lot of prayer, a lot of time, a lot of trouble, a lot of sacrifice, a lot of money. 

I hope and pray there will be people who are more than just 'on the 27 million song bandwagon' because of this song. People who God calls to do radical things to fight trafficking.

We have to start somewhere-awareness is essential...

27 MILLION: The (estimated) number of modern day slaves trapped in enforced work right now-people bought and sold. Eg. Adult sex workers; Child sex workers as young as 3/4years old; debt bondage labor; Child soldiers; Babies/small children sold and used as a prop by beggars…

SO YOUR AWARE OF THE PROBLEM. (maybe you even bought the song) What next?...

Being aware doesn't actually change anything. 

It's what you do with your awareness that counts...and if you actually want to see a decline in trafficking you will have to commit to something BIG!!! 

THE NEEDS I see daily are many...

Working at 'Daughters of Cambodia' (website: www.daughtersofcambodia.org ) with victims of sex trafficking, I daily see/hear about the effects of trauma, the disfunctional families, the cultural acceptance of sex workers and trafficking. 

The women and men need a way out, not just rehab but a sustainable alternative employment, if they are to leave sex work for good (often victims of sex trafficking don't have any education, and will fall back into sex work easily) they need to learn skills, how to budget money, work ethics.

They are deeply traumatised, they need counseling, they need to know they are of value, they need to know they have hope and a future.

This takes money and skilled workers. Daughters trains men and women who have left the sex industry, to make products, which are then sold in a Phnom Penh boutique and overseas. Daughters employs skilled workers, and volunteers, who provide victims with counceling, health care, child care, skills training, bible teaching, and love+care. Daughters' and other projects helping trafficking victims in Cambodia need more volunteers to commit to help us transform victims lives.

Western tourists visit Cambodia because they know they can sleep with underage girls, girls as young as 4 have been rescued from brothels.

In Cambodian culture it is acceptable to sleep with sex workers. In fact I have heard again and again that teenage men are taken to a prostitute as a 'coming of age'. It is normal for married Cambodian men to sleep with sex workers. There are many Cambodian and Vietnamese women trapped in brothels, and many women pimped out by their own family members. Unless we get to the root of this distorted view of women's value, every victim we help will be replaced with another. Whole communities here need to hear the gospel, to be transformed, to love women and children as God does. The people in the slum areas of Cambodia need a lot of people to bring the gospel to them, to live along side them, to love them, to disciple them and pray for them. 

These are some of the global needs:

27 MILLION: The number of VICTIMS trapped in slavery, who need to be rescued or provided with a way out.

27 MILLION: The number of VICTIMS needing rehabilitation, counceling, vocational training, needing to know they are of value to the world, and have hope for their futures.

27 MILLION: The number of broken, dysfunctional, uneducated, poverty stricken FAMILIES/COMMUNITIES who resorted to selling women, babies and children.  

27 MILLION: The number of times a TRAFFICKER has planned and arranged, with evil intent, to buy and sell each one of those trafficked humans, purely for his/her own gain.

27 MILLION+: The number of MEN worldwide who have visited a trafficked sex slave in the past few days.

27 MILLION+: The number of young women/children all over the world in danger of being THE NEXT VICTIMS of human trafficking.

27 MILLION+: The number of us who need to DO SOMETHING BIG ABOUT TRAFFICKING if we want to see a decline in this disgusting trade…

WHAT CAN YOU DO on your 'mission field'? 

This crisis is HUGE!!! 

The needs are HUGE. 

This mission field is HUGE=wherever you live right now-your on it. 

Many towns/cities in the UK and Worldwide have trafficked women and children trapped in brothels right now.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2101509/Teenage-sex-slave-locked-cage-Birmingham-brothel-didnt-know-country-trafficked-to.html

We need to make others aware of this global crisis.

We need to provide victims worldwide with a way out of slavery.

We need to help rehabilitate victims: counceling, life skills, vocational training, sustainable lifestyles.

We need to help families who think selling a child is the only choice, provide them with skills/resources so they have other ways of making money.

We need to arrest and prosecute traffickers, we need to get to the root of this problem. Also to prevent traffickers from being able to move humans across borders between countries.

We need to find ways to discourage/prevent men from visiting trafficked sex workers. 

We need to go and educate and help all communities/cultures around the world where trafficking is considered 'normal'.

We need to pray 

for radical transformation in all these lives, not just for the victims, but the traffickers, for the men who pay for sex, for the communities and families who sell their own people, and for those who are helping fight already. 

Pray that you will be shown how YOU CAN HELP MAKE A CHANGE.

THE GOOD NEWS

is that we can all do something. If we all focus on what we can do, AND actually go and do it, then I believe we will see a decline in the number of victims of trafficking.

When we pray at Daughters we see change, God hates trafficking, HE is in the business of transforming lives, renewing souls, loving the lost and broken, healing wounds, and giving hope to the hopeless. 

Now that is the bandwagon I do want to be on!!

A Phnom Penh Saturday

My colleague from 'Daughters' has been at my house this afternoon. I’m teaching her to swim, as I have a small pool at my apartment. 

My swimming pool

Most Cambodians can’t swim as they have no P.E. lessons at school here. My lovely friend is so nearly swimming after just 2 lessons-very exciting. I also tried to teach Bunti, the Security guard's baby to swim, but he cried :-( 

We are so fortunate to have been taught to swim at school...

Currently it is the rainy season here, and Cambodia is very flooded in many provinces. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-pacific-15246653

Lots of people have died-well over 200, mainly because they can’t swim and so they have drowned. Many, many more have lost their homes, and everything they own. Lots of peoples animals have drowned, and their crops failed as the land is too water logged.

Here in Phnom Penh the river does look very full, but only a few areas have been badly flooded. During the heavy rain storms the drains overflow and the streets flood, so we all drive through/walk through about 30cm of water/raw sewage/rubbish (nice!), it soon dries up again though.

Flooded streets: best not to think about what is in the water!

After I taught the swimming lesson today, we changed roles, and I had a lesson in Khmer cooking. I learnt how to cook Loc-Lac beef. I recommend you give it a try if you fancy trying something utterly delicious!!...

Mine looked a bit like this, but much nicer!

Here is the recipe:

Loc-Lac beef = My favorite Cambodian dish. Peppery, limey delicious beef, served with salad (seems to be a very Cambodian way of eating, hot food and salad) and rice, and a fried egg.

Chynam naa!! (Translation: very delicious)

INGREDIANTS  (for 2 portions)

Peppery sauce:

Black pepper corns and a grinder

Juice of 1 lime

2 garlic cloves

A large pinch of salt

Salad:

2 handfuls of Lettuce leaves (not iceburg the more floppy ones)

2 Tomatoes sliced into thin discs

1 small onion sliced into thin rings

Beef:

2 lg garlic cloves finely sliced

A hunk of rump steak chopped into small pieces

A large dollop of oyster sauce

A small dollop of fish sauce (not the same as oyster sauce-this one is made from salty fermented fish)

A dessert spoonful of sugar

2 eggs.

HOW TO MAKE IT:

First make the sauce (which goes on the side and gets spooned onto the dish as you eat)

Grind up lots of black pepper-must be freshly ground, atleast 2 table-spoons of it. Finely chop up 2 large garlic cloves and add to the pepper along with the juice of 1 lime and a good pinch of salt.  Put the sauce on one side until you are ready to eat.

Prepare a large plate with a bed of lettuce, topped with a layer of finely sliced onion, and then a layer of finely sliced tomato.

Fry 2 mashed garlic cloves in oil for a few mins, add some finely sliced beef (enough for 2 people) and stir fry until cooked. Add a dollop of oyster sauce, some fish sauce, and a desert spoon of sugar, simmer on low heat for about 5 minutes.

While the beef simmers fry an egg for each person. Fry it so the yoke is cooked through.

Poor the beef stir fry onto the middle of the salad, then top with the eggs. Serve with boiled white rice, and the peppery limey sauce. 

Cambodians never pile their plate up with food the way we would, eating is very communal, so the main dish goes in the middle and you get rice and then each add a small bit of the meat at a time to your plate (unless your a greedy foreigner like me who forgets and piles my plate high!) 

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Cambodia's Pchum Ben Festival

These flowers are sold for offerings at the Pagodas (or sold to me to look pretty in my apartment). They cost about 8 pence each and the seller hand folds the petals on each flower.

Here in Cambodia it is the time of an annual event called Pchum Ben. This 'festival' seems to be unique to Cambodia.  
I write 'festival' like this, as it is such a spooky and spiritually dark event that to me it doesn't seem very festive. More like a grown-up creepy version of halloween. Cambodia is a predominately Buddhist country, but the Buddhist way of life tends to be pic'n'mixed with bits of other religions/traditions all around the world so can look very different from country to country.


The Pchum Ben festival is when many Cambodians pay their respects to their dead ancestors. This is what I have been able to find out about it: Monks chant mantras all night for a number of days running up to the 15th day, as they believe the 'gates of Hell' open on the 15th day of the 10th month in the Khmer calendar (this year that is Wednesday September 28th on our calendar). 

Monks chanting before eating food left at the pagoda (some also gets given to the poor)

It is believed that when the 'gates of Hell' open the spirits, or ghosts of those who went to hell come to earth for 1 day and roam around looking for food. Cambodian people head to the pagoda's at sunrise and leave food there for their ancestors spirits to eat (someone told me they leave very small sticky rice, as some of the spirits are thought to have very small mouths as a punishment for something they did which was bad). As it isn't clear which pagoda the ancestors' spirits may arrive at, they go to various pagodas near where their ancestors lived to leave food. 
I don't understand how the ancestors have ended up in Hell??? And I dont get this: Buddhists believe in reincarnation of the spirit after death, this seems to be a contradiction to the idea of spirits being stuck in Hell, but no-one seems to be able to explain why they are in hell and have not been re-incarnated?

Cambodian's eat rice 3 times a day, so of course lots of rice will be taken to the pagoda's

Today I saw ladies selling flowers, incense and birds in cages (I think the birds are for offerings also? maybe they were just hoping someone wanted a pet bird-but i think this is unlikely!), where there was a big crowd of people queuing up to enter a pagoda. 

Ill fated birds?? (note the day time Pyjama bottoms -all the rage the wear PJ's in the day here)

Away from the Pagoda's Phnom Penh is really quiet today (Monday), with most shops and cafe's closed Monday-Wednesday. Many people have returned to their families in the province they are from. The positives of this event (besides a much appreciated week off work, for catching up on rest) seem to be that the Cambodian people spend time together as families. I have been hearing/reading some pretty distressing stuff about the break down of families in this nation: parents/husbands selling their daughters and wives into the sex trade;  mothers selling their babies to traffickers;  child abuse;  wife beating... 

I hope and pray that this Pchum Ben is a time of Fathers loving their families, that God will turn the hearts of Cambodian family members towards each other, and that they will love the members of their family who are still alive, and that something positive will come out of this dark unfestive festival. 

Thankful that I don't have to worry about my life after death involving being in hell with a very small mouth, only getting to eat rice once a year (I'm totally over rice already b.t.w). 

Life after death: I will be in Heaven with Jesus-Hooray to that!!! 

For this week however I will be mainly by the pool, or sleeping ;-) 

Cambodian countryside

I started my new job with a very timely trip- the annual Daughters' staff retreat. It was brilliant timing for me to be able to get to know the staff team and who does what.
It was the first time i had been outside Phnom Penh, so I was looking forward to the journey, and it didn't disappoint.
Most of Cambodia is covered in Pea green rice fields

The people you may be able to see are planting rice in the flooded fields. It is rice planting season now.

Along the journey I also saw lots and lots of ponds covered in water-lilies, very pretty.

Not the best picture of lilies- but they were everywhere along the side of the road

We passed through small villages where the houses were mainly still in the traditional style: wooden and on stilts. Most houses had a cow or 2 underneath, a hammock, the odd chicken, some a motorbike. 

Typical Cambodian house from a village in the provinces. 

The place we stayed at was near Kampot in the south of Cambodia, near the coast. We traveled for 3 hours on main roads, and then for 1/2 hour on a red dirt track (very bumpy) until we arrived at the beautiful retreat centre. 

We stayed by a river, so here I am... by the river

Our accommodation- cute or what :-) 

The Khmer staff were in charge of catering. We went to the market in Kampot and they bought food which we cooked on a BBQ. I struggled with the food... Im not massively keen on rice, which we ate 3 times a day. I don't eat chicken's heads or chickens feet, and rice with pork, or noodle soup for breakfast is not really my thing. I think I will have to get used to some interesting dishes :

I found that the retreat place sold wine and almost crisps (salted broad beans), and had a stash of french magazines so I made up for all that rice and food with eyes like this. . .

Phew! Wine-O-Clock for me. A moment of (almost) normality on a lovely balcony

We went to the beach, at a place called Kep. The French (Cambodia used to be a French colony) had got there 1st and put a massive statue of a naked woman on the sea front.

Very Un-Cambodian. Very French. 

There was also a massive crab statue. Here are some of my new colleagues, with me and the Crab.

At Kep beach 

What a great way to start a new job.

My 1st week in Phnom Penh

I have been in Cambodia a whole week!!! (And survived to tell you about it!!)
My initial thoughts are:
It is hot and wet!!
It smells funny!
The roads are insane!!

My hair is getting curlier each day- it mainly it looks like I have stuck my hand in an electric socket:

Curly Cambodia hair!

Monica's humidity hair

I do seem to keep getting electric shocks from the dodgy electrics, so maybe this has something to do with it? We have high humidity-it is rainy season= dramatic monsoon rain fall, and thunder storms. I look increasingly like Monica from Friends when she goes to Hawaii!!!

I have mainly spent the week trying to over come jet-lag (i think I have finally conquered it!), quite a few nights were spent lying awake in the dark for hours-not so much fun! But the past 2 days have been better :-)

I have achieved various things to help me start to set up my life here...

The 1st day I got a mobile phone, sounds like a simple thing to do? But here in Cambodia I found I had to buy a hand set from a scruffy shop, a sim card from a shiny new bright yellow 'Hello' phone shop, where it took about 4 people and a photocopy of my passport :-/ to buy a sim card, and then some phone credit from a little stall at the side of the road. This all felt like quite an achievement-and a culture shock on day 1!! 

The 2nd day I kind of repeated the process in order to get a dongle for internet connection. Im up and running on my 'unlimited' month of internet, which the girl in the shop told me once Id bought it, "isnt actually unlimited, it's just called unlimited"!!?? Ok! It seems to work so far.

I also managed to get a helmet: 

So I have been taking Moto-dops (a moped taxi). Every street corner in Phnom Penh has a group of men who say "you wan moto lady", if you do, you hop on the back of their moped, try and explain where you would like to go, and then cling on (praying the whole way that you don't die) while they weave in and out of 100's of other moto's, tuc-tuc's, cars, trucks, dogs, bikes, people etc. and usually end up where you expected. Only one time this week I had to get off the moto, as the driver was driving like a mad man in the opposite direction to where I wanted to go. 

And a P.O. Box (again this was a right palarva!!) but I have now rented my own post box :-) If anyone would like to send me post-especially british fashion mags and chocolate ;-), but all post would be much appreciated, let me know and Ill send you my address. 

I started work yesterday. I have a design room, where I will be based, and where the girls will come for their design and pattern cutting lessons.

The view from the design room

The new design room, the fan is very important!!

Here I am designing some men's accessories 

My desk (anyone who has worked with me knows it wont be this tidy for long!!)

Tomorrow I am going on a retreat with the staff team at Daughters. We are going to Kep and Kampot, on the Cambodian coast. Ive not been out of Phnom Penh before, so am looking forward to seeing the countryside as we travel, and enjoying the sea...pictures to show you soon I hope!!

Kindness

I am feeling so very appreciative of all the encouragement and love people are giving me as I prepare to move to Cambodia. Thank you so much to those people who have been praying for me, offering financial support, advise and practical help. You know who you are, and I am feeling overwhelmed with how kind you have been.

x x x x x x x xx 

"SUESAWDAY"

The word for 'hello'  in Khmer is pronounced 'sue-saw-day' with sue as in a woman's name, saw as in a thing you cut with, and day as in sunday.

I have been doing some basic language study- learning Khmer is essential as the women I will be working with  mostly don't speak English, and some are illiterate in Khmer. I cant find a language school in London which teaches Khmer, so I've got a CD. I can so far only say a few basic words/phrases. Once I get to Phnom Penh I will be having some language lessons, and I am fortunate that there are some wonderful translators at Daughters. 

"You want Moto Lady"

Phnom Penh moto's

Another challenge for me is going to be riding a moped around the streets of Phnom Penh- Im scared of Motor bikes, bikes, mopeds, anything with 2 wheels (give me a horse any day). So far I have managed wobbling on a Boris bike around London, it was the 1st time I have ridden a bike since I was about 12! Next I will be getting on a friends Moped-eeek!!! Im selling as many of my belongings as possible, so I can hopefully afford to buy a Moto when I get to Phnom Penh-how exciting!!

I am so excited about this amazing opportunity to share all that I have with such wonderful Women in Cambodia. I have Luke 4:16-19 going around in my head. God has shown me personally what this verse means in my life: he has set me free, given me riches beyond measure, and freedom to be who he made me to be. My prayer for the women I meet will be that they also receive the freedom Jesus offers them-that they would know his Kindness beyond measure!

“The spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, to proclaim the year of the lords favor” Luke 4:16-19

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Send us out to shine in the darkness...

Both the evening service and youth group were on Social justice tonight...more than just coincidence in my opinion!
I love it when God makes it that clear what he is saying to us as a church, it was unplanned between church team and youth team but we all look at the same theme on the same day!!
Did you know in the bible there are over 300 verses about the poor, and God's concern for them (he makes it so crystal clear we cant ignore this!!).
As Christians we are called to have compassion on those who are the last, the least and the lost.
As Christians we shouldn't turn a blind eye to the needs all around us.
As Christians we are called to LOVE our neighbour!!

"And what does the Lord require of you? 
To act justly and to love mercy 
and to walk humbly with your God" Micha 6:8

However...
As I sit writing this on a comfy sofa with a blanket over my feet, and a cup of tea next to me, I know that there is a homeless man sleeping rough outside our church, I know as I listen to the rain bucketing down outside that so many people here in London have no shelter, no bed, no hot drink. I feel like a hypocrite spending my evening thinking about loving those most in need, but now I feel helpless to know what to do, how to help him.
We all have an inbuilt conscience, we all know right from wrong, no matter if we call ourselves followers of Jesus or not, we can see the world around us in full of injustice, poverty, abuse, inequality, we all get too comfortable with our comfort.
"There is enough in the world for everyones need, but not enough for everyones greed"
What are we going to do about it? What am I going to do about it?...

I rediscovered this song today, Vicky Beeching, break our hearts.

I long that God would do just that. Break my heart for the things that break his, and send me out to shine in the darkness. Not just sing about it...But actually be his hands and feet, taking his love to those most in need.